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How porn can help save your relationship

Sometimes the topic arises whether a site like X-Art is something you should share with your significant other. I would say that yes, it very much is. In fact, I think it’s a great idea and one that could bring couples closer together. In fact, a new study published in the The Archives of Sexual Behavior has found that not only do 45% of couples watch porn together but it’s also a healthy way to bond with your partner.

In today’s world of pornography, many choices exist. Do you want pigtailed teens getting double teamed in the ass, fat lesbians licking each other, or gang banging grannies? The list goes on. For men, there’s a certain appeal to imagining these sort of sexual acts, and the result? It’s not a good one according to a lot of studies. A recent article suggests that the wide availability of so much porn has reduced the male libido. It’s very easy to load up a thumbnail gallery and gloss over a few hundred images in a matter of minutes while searching for that “perfect” shot to finish on.

This over-stimulation has probably led to problems in the bedroom for couples – when the expectations in a guy’s head to match up to the comparatively boring sex he’s having with his wife, it becomes harder to get into it. As one guy puts it in the above mentioned article,

“Now I leave work a half-hour early so I can get home before she does and masturbate to porn.” Throughout the course of our conversation, Perry insists that he’s still attracted to his wife of twelve years. Still, he says, she can’t quite measure up to the porn stars he views online. “Not to be mean, but they’re younger, hotter, and wilder in the sack than my wife,” he says. “Me and her, we still ‘do it’ and everything, but instead of every day, it’s maybe once a week. It’s like I’ve got this ‘other woman’ . and the ‘other woman’ is porn.”

And what about the wives and girlfriends of these guys? They’re probably not too happy about their man’s lack of libido. Plus, they don’t have a sea of adult sites that cater to their every whim. Women traditionally like erotic works that capture their imagination, tell a story, and weave emotions into the plot. And this is exactly why I think sites like X-Art and MetArt can save your relationship.

These types of sites put forth an elevated appreciation of porn, that’s actually closer to art than, say, Bang Bros. They focus on presentation, aesthetics, natural beauty, eroticism, and sensuality without losing sight of the underlying theme – sex. Their site features real couples having passionate sex, and the videos and images are all shot in HD. There’s an emphasis on the setting, and quality photographic work. Who else can take a title like “Backdoor Lover” and make it seem so romantic and charged with real energy?

When you produce a product that blends hardcore porn and intense romance, you get something that’s enjoyable for both men and women. This is one of the reasons why sites like X-Art and MetArt will succeed moving forward. In fact, MetArt recently announced two new sites they’re working on – MyErotica and SexArt. They even employed famous filmmaker Zalman King as the director for the feature release for MyErotica. These are the sort of forward-thinking moves that will elevate the worth of adult websites as we move forward. I bet if more couples got together to share in this sort of adult entertainment, they’d both be very happy.

Mike writes for a number of publications and covers topics such as relationshipts, sexuality, and erotic art. You can find examples of high quality erotica mentioned in this article at http://www.x-arts.com

 
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Posted by on December 12, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

Fine art nudes in today’s world

In today’s ever-increasing digital world, it’s very easy to take an exposed photo of yourself, and publish it on the web. But that doesn’t mean you qualify for “fine art nude” work. In fact, with so many amateur photographers and girls out there, you need to be sure you’re involved in a legit offer before you shed the clothing. Any girl who’s serious about her work wants to get “the shot” – the photo that sets them apart from others. To do so requires a careful eye on the part of the photographer, and a tight working relationship between the photographer and the subject.

This is also true if you want to make nude modeling something more than a hobby. Girls who will pose bare, consider the photographer as being a professional, but posing exposed has factors they consider past that point. There is no way to list the why or tips about how, but there are feelings at work which have been in play for years since woman posed for old artist painters and men working in stone. One of the biggest factors for a model who wants to find a working relationship with a photographer is the trust factor. Too many sleazy men try to pass themselves off as photographers, without any experience or real worth in their work. A good photographer will be professional in their demeanor and take care to make sure their photos capture the very essence of beauty and sophistication.

“The model is not to be copied, but to be realized.” – Robert Henri

Females who can manipulate their shape into a variety of interesting poses set themselves apart from the rest, and will have an easier time getting a job. A good model spends time coming up with interesting, dynamic poses and takes pride in being creative in this area, which affects methods often he is hired. If upon entering the setting for your photo shot, you find it to be a windowless office in a corporate park, you might want to reconsider whether this guy simply wants to see a bunch of nude girls or whether he’s actually a worthwhile prospect to work for.

Some helpful tips:

1. Locate opportunities: Contact your local art school or college to see if they are hiring art chicks.
2. If required by the institution, prepare a resume. Include face shots, and any other pictures of previous modeling you have done, including ballet, yoga, or anything else where you can demonstrate a pose or certain look.
3. Know what you’re getting into by requesting information. Discuss payment or hourly sitting rates, which can vary greatly but generally are between $15 and $25 for drawing. Photographers generally command higher fees than a painter.
4. Be Expressive – draw on any personal experience to think of poses that are interesting or inspiring. A variety of physical activities might help spice up your session. Many ladies draw on the poses done in classical works of art, but these should only supply ideas, not be copied.
5. Bring a “modeling bag” that contains a change of clothes, a snack, water, and whatever else you need to be comfortable for a few hours or a day long shoot.
6. Before you leave for your session, shower and apply lotion so that you won’t offend the artist with your physique odor and will have nice smooth skin. Leave your jewelry and other adornments at home, unless you are asked to bring them with you. Too often these things can detract from the overall appearance, which should be natural and beautiful without shiny things.
7. Upon arrival, you will be expected to change (remove all of your clothing). You’ll probably have access to a changing room, or area where you can get dressed and undressed privately.

For more information on Fine art nudes visit MetArt, one of the leaders in erotic photography.

 
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Posted by on October 20, 2011 in Articles

 

Endlessfaith gets kinky on cam

Endlessfaith cam girlA lot of these webcam girls only have a few things they’re good at – certain kinks, fantasies, and so on that they’ll participate in, and many that they won’t. That’s not a bad thing, but it’s fun when you find a girl who will do just about anything you can think of. Endlessfaith is one such girl. She’s into it all, and if you log into her live sex cam you can catch her sucking on toys, fucking her ass with her legs behind her head, and making herself come in loud orgasms. I am sure you’ll find her not only smoking hot, but willing to please you.

 
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Posted by on August 31, 2011 in Live.tv Cam Girls

 

Answer the questions

For a lot of cam girls, answering the redundant questions that guys ask over and over becomes tedious, boring, and even offensive. However, it doesn’t have to be like that. Here are some tips to help you survive as a cam girl, when the same questions keep popping up, such as:

  • How are you?
  • What is your name?
  • Where are you from?
  • Got toys?
  • Wanna see me on webcam?

Even if you answered these already, each member wants their own attention given to them during a live sex chat session, and wants to feel important. So you need to address them, rather than ignore them. Otherwise you simply won’t make sales.

For those of you who ignore these types of questions, or give snide responses, think again. You will not gain a private chat through that sort of interaction. One thing you might want to do is take the time to write a decent profile. In it, you can answer a lot of these types of questions, and simply point visitors to it.

So, even if you are tired of answering questions, try answering them either way. You’ll probably do better in the cam biz.

 
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Posted by on August 31, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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Posted by on August 16, 2011 in Live.tv Cam Girls

 

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Posted by on August 16, 2011 in Metcams girls

 

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Posted by on August 16, 2011 in Metcams girls

 

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Posted by on August 16, 2011 in Live.tv Cam Girls

 

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Posted by on August 16, 2011 in Live.tv Cam Girls

 

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Posted by on August 16, 2011 in Gay